Valentine's Day is a time for love and affection, but it's also a time when romance scammers are most active. West Australian authorities have issued a warning about online romance scams, revealing several 'red flags' that could indicate a new relationship is not what it seems.
Sixty-three West Australians fell victim to online romance scams last year, losing approximately $3.8 million in total. Attorney General Tony Buti emphasized that while this figure is lower than in previous years, it is still unacceptable. He urged people not to send money to anyone until there has been a real-life meeting, as the person you're speaking to could be non-existent.
Scammers often set up accounts on dating websites and apps with fake pictures, names, and life stories. They may start with 'love bombing', sending a constant stream of messages to suck you in and form a friendship. Then, they may ask you to send them money.
There are several 'red flags' to look out for. Scammers may come up with excuses for not meeting in person, such as working on an oil rig or being in the military. They may also urge you not to tell your friends and family about the new 'relationship'. If anyone asks you to send them money online or move to an encrypted platform to keep your relationship secret, these are all red flags.
AI technology also poses a serious threat, as deepfake technology could allow scammers to replicate real people. One woman was almost fooled by an AI deepfake over a video call, only to discover that the person on the other end was a completely different man hiding under a blanket in a cupboard.
The National Anti-Scam Centre reports that online romance scams disproportionately affect people over 35, people with disabilities or diverse backgrounds, as well as people who are divorced, widowed, or actively seeking relationships. Men are more likely to report romance scams, but women report higher losses. Nationally, women lost $20.1 million between January 2024 and May 2025, compared to $13.3 million for men. On average, women lost $36,091 per scam, compared to $17,089 for men.
To avoid romance scams, it's important to use reverse image searches to verify profile photos, take time to get to know someone, and trust your instincts. By being aware of these red flags and taking precautions, you can protect yourself from falling victim to a romance scam.
